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Friday, April 15, 2011

Holy Cow! It's Cleaning Time!

It's spring, the time for getting rid of the old and bringing in new! Lots of that been going on here!

I'm talking about some serious emotional Spring Cleaning! Here's what was unearthed today ...

I am programmed to give and give and give and I have sucked (technical term) at receiving!!

That's right, today I uncovered an old deeply buried, incredibly false, but feels-like-true belief that goes something like this ... "I don't deserve for good things to happen." Ouch, that one hurts!


This surfaced because of work on a hot button issue - the giving and receiving of money!  Anyone else have issues in that department?  I've been working with this amazing coach Dave Blomsterberg and we've been working with the language of abundance. One thing he's been teaching me about is the infinite ebb and flow of money. To combat the years of negative self-talk, we've come up with a new mantra, which I've been repeating, "Money is for making good things happen."

But when I say it, I'd have this HUGE anxiety feeling around it .. HUGE! So I decided to examine this Big Hairy Spider belief that I don't deserve for good things to happen ...

First of all, how can anything fantastic sustain itself in your world, if you aren't open to receiving as well as giving!

So what to do? Change it! Learn about the beautiful balance that comes with gratitude of being open to both giving and receiving.

Dave teaches the language of abundance.  He always asks, what DO you want? Ok, so I flipped the afore-mentioned BHS belief into, "I deserve for good things to happen." Every time I say it my heart feels lighter. I deserve for good things to happen, I deserve for good things to happen!  Try it! You'll love it!

Bottom line, because I wasn't open to receiving all the good things the Universe was bringing me, I had a tendency toward self-sabotage. In the past, my language would have been, "I let go of the need to sabotage myself."  But that's speaking the language of lack ... Instead I replaced it with the language of abundance ... "I embrace my intuition, it makes me a success!"

It's a whole new world when you learn to receive as well as give! How you talk to yourself makes the difference between moderate success and total abundance! So speak positive words, think abundant thoughts, let all the good life has to offer in and enjoy this beautiful day!

You deserve your most amazing life ever!  For more information about how you can change your life with ONE SESSION, call or email at 818-889-1557 or dave@daveblomsterberg.com!